26 May 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Dating a Bad Driver

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By Daniel Ponsky Where is it written that the driver in the vehicle is the only one who has to pay attention to the road being driven? Nowhere and that’s just the way I like it. I mean let’s be real, I’m supposed to trust one person driving my life around a million other cars [...]

19 May 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Are Different Tastes in Music a Deal Breaker?

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By: Daniel Ponsky Very few people have a super developed instinct that allows them to vibe and understand someone without ever having talked to them. I myself sometimes have an uncanny ability that tunes me into the most random people. Sometimes it is in their walk, or expression, or reaction to a situation that tunes [...]

12 May 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: My Date Tells Me What to Do

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By Daniel Ponsky What is it inside of us human beings that stir our attraction for others? No easy question if you think about all of the different people you know and then think about the reasons why you like them. Is it on personal, social or business terms? Do they help make you money [...]

7 May 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: First Mother’s Day With Her Family

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By: Daniel Ponsky For the record, there probably isn’t a date on the calendar with more pressure than this one for a dude. As men we handle our business twenty-four hours a day seven days a week–but having to be on point for your lady’s mom’s and family, now that’s a whole other level of [...]

29 Apr 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Passing Out During Sex

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By Daniel Ponsky What makes a great lover great? Is it passionate unpredictability between the sheets? Is it the way they kiss, or smell or tease your uninhibited senses into an intoxicating carousel of sexual prowess? Whatever it is that hits the pleasure button within you, one thing is for sure. For that button to [...]

22 Apr 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Burping Loudly in Public

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By Daniel Ponsky There are very few things that can absolutely change a moment in your life the second they happen. A baby’s cry can stir up the most dormant of emotions in us that might range from a gentle concern of “Oh, poor baby, I hope he’s ok?” to “Jesus, somebody shut that frickin [...]

7 Apr 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: He Asked Me Out Then Expected Me to Pay the Tab

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By Daniel Ponsky Let’s put it this way, what did you really have to do Friday night after work? You busted your booty for an entire week faking big smiles and super fun attitude to appease your boss’s ego. You took all their lip with a grain of salt and halfway through the weeks festival [...]

31 Mar 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Arguing in Public

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By Rachel Spensatelli Anyone who’s ever been in a relationship knows it’s not always rainbows, unicorns and butterflies. Occasional quarrels and disagreements just come with the territory. Arguing is natural, and as long as it’s done constructively, it can be healthy. Aside from knowing how and when to argue, where to argue is important too. [...]

24 Mar 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Dating a Picky Eater

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By Daniel Ponsky See, I’m wired a little different than most people on this planet. I live life simple and try to walk my path with a sense of reserved moderation. I balance myself with a strong belief that too much of anything always ends up being bad for you in the end, if your [...]

10 Mar 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: My Date Has Noticeable Nose Hair

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By Daniel Ponsky When it comes to a male man and the infinitely magnificent ways we have evolved on this planet over the years, certain physical “tells” about us men have evolved as well. Certain physical characteristics if you care to notice on a man at first site will almost always reveal dead certain giveaways [...]

About Jennifer Kelton

I did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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